10 Questions Every Couple Should Ask "Before The Ring"
A Biblical Guide to Discernment, Red Flags & Relationship Readiness
Are you dating with intention? Before you say “yes” to the ring, make sure you’re saying “yes” to the right foundation. This free guide, 10 Questions Every Couple Should Ask Before The Ring, is your invitation to pause, reflect, and seek God’s wisdom together. These questions will help you uncover red flags, build deeper connection, and move forward with clarity and peace—so you don’t just get married, you get it right.
What’s Inside:
- ✅ 10 biblical, heart-searching questions for pre-engagement clarity
- ✅ Reflection space for each partner to write their response
- ✅ Bonus: Red Flag Checklist (Top 5 warning signs not to ignore)
- ✅ A scripture for each question to guide prayer and discussion
- ✅ Invitation to book a free 20-minute discovery session with Dr. Deborah
Sample Questions:
- What does marriage mean to each of us—emotionally, spiritually, and practically?
- Have we discussed our expectations around roles, finances, and faith?
- Do we know how each other handles conflict—and have we seen it firsthand?
- Are there any red flags that we’re avoiding because we “hope” they’ll change?
- How do we pray together—and how is Christ truly at the center of our relationship?
Who It’s For:
- Women who are in a serious dating relationship
- Couples considering engagement
- Christian singles who want to date with intention
- Engaged couples looking to confirm their decision before the wedding
Marriage is one of the biggest decisions you’ll ever make—and God cares deeply about your journey. Download this free guide and start the conversations that matter most. Whether you're feeling confident or unsure, these questions will help you gain clarity, grow in faith, and prepare for a Christ-centered future.
“Before you say yes to the ring, say yes to clarity.”
Discover if you're truly ready for engagement—and avoid walking into marriage with doubt, fear, or red flags.
Meet Your Coach – Dr. Deborah
With years of experience counseling and coaching couples, Dr. Deborah is passionate about helping couples navigate the pre-engagement phase with wisdom and faith. She has helped countless couples discern their path, avoid heartbreak, and build a Christ-centered marriage that lasts.
